We hear a lot about random acts of violence. We are more likely to pay attention to the negative, unexpected events that happen than the mildly pleasant events that occur. We notice that things go wrong and don’t consider the number of times when things go according to plan. Consequently, we are likely to overestimate how often bad things occur. For this discussion board, I ask that you please commit three RANDOM acts of kindness. You will do something kind for someone else that requires you to go somewhat out of your way to do. They do not have to be around for someone to witness your act or to acknowledge what you have done. Examples are putting money in someone’s parking meter (be careful–this is sometimes considered illegal), let someone go in front of you in line, compliment a stranger, pay coffee for the person behind you. Remember: these should be random! Treating your significant other to a movie and date or buying a round of drinks or appetizers for everyone at the bar, are not random acts of kindness because you obviously have something to gain!
- What were your three random acts of kindness?
- How did you feel about committing this act and how did you feel afterwards?
- Did anyone react to your act of kindness? What sort of reaction did they have?
- Did you notice anyone (not necessarily a classmate) doing any acts of kindness for you during this time period in which you were doing the project? What was your reaction to these acts?
- Do you believe there is a norm of kindness to others or more of a norm of putting “number one” first? On what are you basing your opinion? Do you notice more acts of kindness after doing this project or fewer?
- The International Encyclopedia of the Social Sciences defines psychological altruism as “a motivational state with the goal of increasing another’s welfare”. Psychological altruism is contrasted with psychological egoism, which refers to the motivation to increase one’s own welfare. Describe the feelings of altruism versus egoism that you’ve felt in the past.
Answer all 6 questions to receive for full credit.
